Monthly Archives: October 2010

Trying To Be Positive Doesn’t Work – Especially When You’re Grieving

After my last post sharing about the death and birth of our little girl, I was flooded with emails – people sharing their stories of similar experiences, people expressing gratitude for something they resonated with in my story that enabled them to move themselves along just a little further in their own healing journey…

What Would It Be Like If You Didn’t Have To Be A Manager?

Several years ago after being hired by one of the largest sales organizations in the UK, I was taken into an office by Nic, my new manager. He hadn’t interviewed me for my job because he was new in his own role, having been internally promoted the same day as I was recruited…

Stillbirth Is Still Birth

As the fog has started to clear, Andy and I have been sharing the story of the past week with everyone. We’ve done little else. It’s been one long open conversation with each other and with our friends and family…

R.I.P. Juggernaut Duncan

(Andy writing on Cath’s behalf). It saddens me to tell you that yesterday we discovered that our little baby’s heart was no longer beating. At this stage, it is unclear why this has happened, and it appears to be unrelated to Cath’s kidney condition that we have been concerned about in this pregnancy. I think…