Resources for Transforming Your Fears, & My Five Rules

How to Overcome Fear by Increasing Your Fear Fitness

I’m convinced that the only major skill set that matters in creating the life you want is having the ability to manage your own fear. I wrote this post on how to overcome fear by increasing your fear fitness over at Life Optimizer. This is one of many ways you can improve your ability to manage your fear so that it works for you, rather than getting in your way.
My “Somedays” on Alex Fayle’s Someday Syndrome Blog:

Fellow Location Independent life coach, Alex Fayle has a regular feature where he interviews people about their “somedays” – the things they’re putting off until “someday,” or saving in case they need it “someday.” Alex got me thinking with some really interesting questions about my somedays. You can read our interview over here.

The First Agile Living Blog Carnival Roundup!

Thanks so much to everyone who submitted posts to the monthly Agile Living Blog Carnival this month. Here are my favorites:

Simplifying your life is essential if you are going to stay agile in this fast-paced, high-change world we live in – particularly in these turbulent financial times! To help you with handling your finances in a way that’ll enable you to stay agile, adaptable and resilient and create the life you want, Adam Baker wrote 42 Ways To Radically Simplify Your Financial Life posted at Man Vs. Debt. I love his take on simplicity in handling your finances – Adam says, “The heart of simplicity is in exploring, finding what works for you, and purging the rest.” So true!

How to Feel Secure When Everything Is Changing

We all have a natural desire to feel secure and change shakes up our lives, so we often feel insecure when we’re going through change. And then when we feel insecure, we avoid change or we try to control change by creating lots of goals and plans and rules… and then we end up being rigid and restricted and limiting our possibilities and results. I think we’ve all seen examples of individuals and organizations that haven’t been able to survive this recession and other big world changes because they’ve been too rigid and inflexible and stuck in the old rules of how things should be done. Those that are thriving right now are the individuals and organizations who are willing to challenge and change the old rules and assumptions and create new ones all the time.

You Can Do Anything You Want

Did you catch the Myers-Briggs Facebook quiz going around? I’m a sucker for these sorts of personality tests. I think I’ve done every personality and aptitude test available to mankind… and all the silly cosmo quizes too. Not that I’m any wiser for it!
What do I want to be when I grow up?

Like many other new graduates, after finishing high school, I was confused about what I wanted to do with my life and I didn’t want to take on a whopping student loan doing something just for the sake of it (I shared a bit about this when Alex interviewed me on his blog, Someday Syndrome). So I took a year off, to explore and decide. I say “took a year off” because that’s how it’s referred to in my family (mostly because my dad didn’t know how to explain what I was doing to his mates at work!). Here’s what I did on my “year off:”

2 Simple Questions to Review and Redirect Your Life

Tomorrow we head back to Cape Town… for a few months. We’ve come to think of our lives in 6 to 9 month “phases” that correlate with a move to another continent. For years Andy and I have had very different change cycles (He’s definitely a Revolutionary and I’ve always been an Evolutionary), but these days we’re finding that we both feel comfortable making significant changes in our lives every 6 to 9 months or so. One of the things that makes it easier for us to regularly make big changes as well as the little tweaks that have kept us aligned with what we love, is the regular “review and redirect” process we use. So if you’d like to align your life more with what you love, or get better at making big changes, here’s how we do it, along with a bit of an insight into the big and small changes Andy and I are making right now.